DROP EXTENSION didn't properly reset caches and other saved state
causing various errors related to bad state when the extension was
dropped and/or recreated later.
This patch adds functionality to track the state of the extension and
also signals DROP EXTENSION to other backends that might be running,
allowing them to reset their internal extension state.
Previously, the planner used a direct query via the SPI interface to
retrieve metadata info needed for query planner functions like query
rewriting. This commit updates the planner to use our caching system.
This is a performance improvement for pretty much all operations,
both data modifications and queries.
For hypertables, this added a cache keyed by the main table OID and
added negative entries (because the planner often needs to know if a
table is /not/ a hypertable).
